Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. Ultimately, it comes down to this. She sounds like she is worth the extra work. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. So far I have been sad most of the time. Yet others are really great human beings.
All people see is the money and that's it. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. I had a business, 3 engineering degrees, numerous patents, and was working countless hours a week to try and keep a roof over our heads, make sure she was fed, the house was clean, bills were paid, etc. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. The right age for getting married varies depends for men and women. I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. I have already been told I will "lose" to medicine if I put pressure on him. Mormon girls are thirsting for strong, confident, masculine men.
In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems. Almost everything is complicated. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. That is a goal worth fighting for.
Also, they are encouraged to date in groups and not pair off alone, so if your date insists on the same, then agree politely. I cherish my MD husband and Ph. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. It sounds like you have found a good one. A lot of Mormons think that good people will obviously recognize the truthfulness of the church and quickly join.